Anupama Parameswaran speaks on narcissistic abuse, sparks debate

Actors Anupama Parameswaran and Madonna Sebastian have spoken publicly about experiencing narcissistic abuse in relationships, reigniting discussion on the condition. The New Indian Express reports that narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is marked by an exaggerated sense of self-importance and lack of empathy, but cautions against casual labelling of difficult partners as narcissists. Psychiatrist Dr Arun B Nair says red flags include gaslighting cycles of affection followed by ghosting, which can leave victims emotionally shattered.

The News Minute notes the power of Anupama's disclosure, she said her mood, clothing and social media were policed, in giving vocabulary to women struggling to name emotional abuse. But it warns that online self-diagnosis has limits, as she gained insight from the internet and it is unclear if her ex-partner was professionally diagnosed. The piece contrasts this with National Crime Records Bureau data showing nearly three in 10 reported crimes against women in 2023 were cruelty by husband or relatives.

Survivor-led collective Dignity Rising Kerala is providing support to people facing abuse, says the New Indian Express. The News Minute calls the conversation important despite complexities, as it helps break taboos around women ending relationships.